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Adeline Adella
Discovery is a Process...


Saturday, June 7, 2008

Fogiveness is ...

Giving a small part of your heart to the person you hate





Got this phrase when i was watching "A Moment to Remember"
When the lady was asking her husband to forgive his mum.
What a simply illustration of the word, "Forgiveness"


Often we think that it's hard to forgive that person due to the pain
But think again, maybe it's just a small wonder that you do inside your heart that will
Lead to the big word "Forgiveness"





In our hearts, there are 'rooms' like what i've drawn below.
What we usually ponder on will be what it our heart contains:)













For someone who hold on to the hurt...
They will have an unforgiving heart that contains that hurt caused by the other party.
The heart will be so filled with hurt that he/she has no room for herself in the heart.
Meaning he/she will feel very low and has no drive to move on even further.
It's quite a horrible feeling where they just don't know where to start to move on.
But all they need to do is to clear some room where the blame and hurt occupied to let themselves in:)










On the other hand, someone who's filled with love
Will be able to occupy different people in his/her life in their heart.
Remember our heart is divided into different rooms:)
When others occupied our heart, we will show concern to them
From there, our heart will also be strengthen upon receiving the love from them:)
That's why we must try not to be someone of "1 space" love
Meaning you love ONLY One of your friend or family member.
Because Love is always not one- sided
It needs responses with love being given back to the giver




Love has No Limits:)
Give your Love and Show Concern:)




I always pray to God that He will increase my Capacity to Love Others:)
I want to contain more People in my life:)




Let's go back to the person who held on to the hurts.
If he/she chooses to make a small change to her heart
By letting that person who caused to hurt to be in 1 of the 'room' in he/her heart
Just by doing that, he/she is erasing all the hurts that was in the other 'rooms'...
So now there are more 'rooms', he/she can go in to his/her own heart:)
And dwell in it:), Be Happy and Motivated for Life
AND Onward for Happy Lovely Life...
More Rooms to love people too:)



Is there Someone who needs your "Room" Recently?
Why not give it out rather than making it a "Junk Room" :)